This weekend a conversation came up about threesomes…
I can’t begin to say it enough, I really don’t get the fascination with this topic or the idea of having one.
Why am I writing about this then?
Mainly to espouse my strong belief in how problematic the ‘threesome’ could be to your relationship.
At first I wondered was it strictly a guy thing, or a single guy thing.
But there seem to be a lot of women and couples (hetero/homosexual) that are into it.
My stance: Why invite problems into your relationship?
Some bloggers and couples have stated that the threesome could actually fix or add spice to your relationship. The adding spice is my favorite reason to ‘tear’ apart.
I would say if your relationship needs spice, watching someone with your girl/guy will not add spice. At least not the kind you intend. It might add the ‘spice’ that shows up on an episode of SNAPPED, #justsaying.
Also, the thought of using a threesome to ‘fix’ your relationship is flawed in my opinion.
If there are problems, chances are you need to work at them with your partner first. The threesome would seem to be a destructive distraction or the potentially final breaking point.
I believe there are only three instances where a threesome could co-exist with happiness: if your single, not in love with any of the parties involved or under the age of 28.
What do you think? I really like to know.
I’ve been called conservative, prudish and judgemental. I really want to understand what the big deal is with this ‘threesome’ fascination.
All debates welcome!
That’s it for Wednesday!
Goodnight – Sontaia