Trusting yourself

Trusting yourself is a hard thing to do. No matter how relationships begin or end.Trust is the glue, not love or sex. Sex fades and loves happens over time.

Trusting yourself is what will eventually take you to the next level, or make you realize “you’ve gone as far as your going with this person.”

Don’t doubt yourself because others may not agree. You know yourself, even within chaos and confusion. Know one knows your better than YOU!

Some people have tremendous difficulty buying into this.

I was thinking about this for a while, this was another thought in the draft box, that I thought it was time to dust off.

How do you know when you can trust anyone?

I was of the believe for most of my dating life that trust was earned not given.

Basically, I trusted no one until proven INNOCENT. It’s a heck of a way to go about your love life.

This thought process was negative and produced endless nights of insomnia, wild accusations, and paranoia.

Definitely, not the place or the space for love or self development to grow.

Then I begin to think: What could I lose by trusting people, friends, girlfriends?

What could I gain, that was the important question?

EVERYTHING

People are going to do, what they do.

Not trusting is going to prevent you from happiness, keep you closed from development.

Trusting yourself = Trusting others.

That’s it!

Ciao..Happy almost V-DAY!

 

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